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You Know How They Say The Divorce Rate In The Church Is 50%? Prepare To Be Shocked…

July 1st, 2014 | No Comments | Posted in Lifestyle
He puts the wedding ring on herIt’s long been believed that half of America’s marriages end in divorce and the problem is just as bad in the Church as the rest of the country.But when Harvard-trained researcher Shaunti Feldhahn tried to find the actual research to prove those points, she couldn’t. It started her on an eight-year odyssey to find the actual facts.

A Demoralizing Belief

The Atlanta-based researcher and author realized the widespread belief that marriage failure is as bad in the Church as the rest of the world demoralizes Christians and can even cause them to question their faith.

“For a pastor it means ‘all my work doesn’t mean very much,’ ” Feldhahn told CBN News. “For the average person in the congregation there’s this subtle feeling like, ‘If that’s true: if on something as important as marriage, doing what the Bible says doesn’t change anything, what does that mean about the Bible?'”

Virginia Pastor Daniel Floyd, with Fredericksburg’s Lifepoint Church, has seen how this can hurt people’s faith.

“Because a 50 percent divorce rate inside the church really just said the church makes no difference in your marriage,” Floyd explained. “And that’s quite an indictment of the church.”

Christian psychotherapist Angel Davis said the belief half of marriages fail can even give people permission to give up.

“When you have something like a statistic like 50 percent, it gives you the option,” she told CBN News. “It becomes an option in your mind.”

The Good News

In her book, The Good News About Marriage, Feldhahn lays out what she found during her eight years of investigating the complicated, complex divorce statistics.

First, the divorce rate is way below 50 percent and much lower for those who attend church.

Feldhahn estimates the overall divorce rate for the country is around 31 percent. The studies of people who regularly go to church all show a much lower divorce rate for them.

“Maybe 15 percent, maybe 20 percent for all marriages. First marriages, second marriages, third marriages,” Feldhahn explained.

Feldhahn cited one example where a pastor tracked 143 couples who he had married.

“It was 25, 27 years later. Less than 10 percent had been divorced,” she stated.

Feldhahn hopes these facts she’s uncovered become widespread.

“Pastors need to know this,” she said. “People need to be able to look around the average congregation and say, ‘You know what, most of these people will have strong and happy marriages for a lifetime. Doing what God says matters. This is a big deal to know.”

Lasting a Lifetime

So where do things go from here? For one, pastors and counselors can now say with assurance, marriage makes sense and is likely to last a lifetime.

For religious believers, if they’ll be attentive to practice their faith with their spouse, they can almost double their odds of avoiding divorce.

Therapist Davis said this could go a long way to erasing the doubt that Christianity makes no difference. “That there’s no power in it to transform. And that is just not true,” she insisted. dns server . expired domains . what is a cloud . “So those statistics I think could help a lot with that belief.”

Pastor Floyd believes it’ll be a major plus for the faith when this new knowledge gets around.

“If you have regular church attendance, then it’s going to make a difference in the longevity of your marriage,” he said. “I think that is incredible firepower, so to speak, for the local church, for the pastor.”

Divorce Proof Marriages

Christian_divorce1Feldhahn told CBN News she’s personally seen the power of this new information immediately pump up a congregation’s faith.

“You hear this gasp go through the congregation, and everybody starts applauding, and it’s like you can see hope coming back into their eyes,” she said.

Shaunti’s husband Jeff explained such hope can be crucial in helping a couple actually survive.

“Shaunti and I have had tough patches,” he admitted. “But we never once thought that we weren’t going to make it. We knew we were going to. So you work through the tough patches and you move on to the other side. And the other side is always good.”

Feldhahn stated people can make other choices to divorce-proof their marriage.

“People who decide not to live together before they get married, that has been proven to have a really good effect on the marriage,” she said as an example. “And so you might get down to the 5, 10 percent divorce odds.”

Now Feldhahn and others hope people will spread the word.

“To be able to get this information into other people’s hands quickly,” she said, “I really think we can change the paradigm from discouragement to hope.”


99 Days of Summer

July 1st, 2014 | No Comments | Posted in Uncategorized

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22 Facts About Sleep That Will Surprise You

July 1st, 2014 | No Comments | Posted in Healthy Living
We spend about one-third of our time on Planet Earth asleep. That’s about 16 hours a night as infants, 9 hours as teens and 7 to 8 hours as adults.14-HHB-287-Adult-Sleep-Infographic_05.02.2014_FINAL


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Sayings From The Bible

July 1st, 2014 | No Comments | Posted in Lifestyle
Some people think the Bible is outdated, but many of the everyday phrases we use come from Bible verses. Sometimes phrases become over-used and we begin to lose the sense of what they mean, but when you study the verses behind these phrases, you will develop a greater understanding.Here are 20 everyday sayings found in the Bible:20. Faithful unto death (Revelations 2:10)
“Do not fear what you are about to suffer. Behold, the devil is about to throw some of you into prison, that you may be tested, and for ten days you will have tribulation. Be faithful unto death, and I will give you the crown of life.” (NSV)


19. As old as the hills (Job 15:7)
“Are you the first man ever born? Were you brought forth before the hills?”


18. In the twinkling of an eye (1 Corinthians 15:52)
“…  in a flash, in the twinkling of an eye, at the last trumpet. For the trumpet will sound, the dead will be raised imperishable, and we will be changed.”


17. Sign of the times (Matthew 16:3)
“You know how to interpret the appearance of the sky, but you cannot interpret the signs of the times.”


16. Sour Grapes (Jeremiah 31:30)
“Instead, everyone will die for their own sin; whoever eats sour grapes—their own teeth will be set on edge.”


15. The apple of his eye (Deuteronomy 32:10, Zechariah 2:8)
“In a desert land he found him,
in a barren and howling waste.
He shielded him and cared for him;
he guarded him as the apple of his eye.”


14. A man after my own heart (1 Samuel 13:14)
“But now your kingdom will not endure; the Lord has sought out a man after his own heart and appointed him ruler of his people, because you have not kept the Lord’s command.”


13. An eye for an eye, a tooth for a tooth (Matthew 5:38)
“You have heard that it was said, ‘Eye for eye, and tooth for tooth.’”


12. At his wits end (Psalms 107:27)
“They reeled and staggered like drunkards; they were at their wits’ end.”


11. Bite the dust (Psalms 72:9)
“May the desert tribes bow before him and his enemies lick the dust.”


10. Eat, drink and be merry (Ecclesiastes 8:15)
“So I commend the enjoyment of life, because there is nothing better for a person under the sun than to eat and drink and be glad. Then joy will accompany them in their toil all the days of the life God has given them under the sun.”


9. Fight the good fight (1 Timothy 6:12)
“Fight the good fight of the faith. Take hold of the eternal life to which you were called when you made your good confession in the presence of many witnesses.”


8. Go the extra mile (Matthew 5:41)
“If anyone forces you to go one mile, go with them two miles.”


7. Love of money is the root of all evil (1 Timothy 6:10)
“For the love of money is a root of all kinds of evil. Some people, eager for money, have wandered from the faith and pierced themselves with many griefs.”


6. As white as snow (Daniel 7:9)
“Thrones were set in place, and the Ancient of Days took his seat.
His clothing was as white as snow; the hair of his head was white like wool.
His throne was flaming with fire, and its wheels were all ablaze.”


5. Pearls before swine (Matthew 7:6)
“Do not give dogs what is sacred; do not throw your pearls to pigs. If you do, they may trample them under their feet, and turn and tear you to pieces.”


4. Put your house in order (2 Kings 20:1)
“In those days Hezekiah became ill and was at the point of death. The prophet Isaiah son of Amoz went to him and said, ‘This is what the Lord says: Put your house in order, because you are going to die; you will not recover.’”


3. The blind leading the blind (Matthew 15:14)
“Leave them; they are blind guides. If the blind lead the blind, both will fall into a pit.”


2. The letter of the law (2 Corinthians 3:6)
“He made us able to be servants of a new agreement from himself to his people. This new agreement is not a written law, but it is of the Spirit. The written law brings death, but the Spirit gives life.” (NCV)


1. The root of the matter (Job 19:28)
“If you say, ‘How we will hound him,
since the root of the trouble lies in him…’”


Bible translation New International Version (NIV), unless where otherwise noted.

Apple Dippers Bar

July 1st, 2014 | No Comments | Posted in Recipes
Guaranteed to keep any kid or kid-like-adult busy for 30 minutes :) Keeping them clean, that’s another story!

Here’s how you make these:

Apple Dippers Bar

For the caramel dip, unwrap 20 caramels and add in a splash of milk. Microwave in 30 second intervals until completely melted and set aside.

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For the chocolate dip, measure out some milk chocolate chips into a bowl and add in a splash of milk. Microwave in 30 second intervals until completely melted and set aside.

….are you seeing a pattern here?

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Milk {and cream cheese} are items we always have on hand. Just ALWAYS. My kids drink organic milk and I’m always baking or spreading something with cream cheese. Since it’s June Dairy Month, I thought it fitting to use them in each dip recipe.

PS- dairy items are so easy to use and develop recipes with! There’s always inspiration and creative possibilities with those products! Probably why I can always be found in the dairy aisle. Lol!

PPS- dairy products also include my favorite *addicting* coconut almond milk! Mmmm…..

PPPS- I know you were really wondering about my favorite non-dairy-but-still-found-in-the-dairy-aisle-milk. You’re welcome.

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For the peanut butter dip, stir peanut butter together with some softened cream cheese….then add in some marshmallow fluff.

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So it turns into this smooth and fluffy mixture that tastes amazing with apples.

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Now for the goodies!! Anything that is small, sweet and edible would be a good topping. My favorites were the coconut and salted peanuts!

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The last thing to do is wash and slice your apples. Then lay everything out and start dipping!

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You could try chocolate and graham crackers…

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or peanut butter with coconut {one of my favorites!}

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Apple Dippers Bar
for the caramel dip:
20 caramels, unwrapped
3 tablespoons milk
for the chocolate dip:
3/4 cup milk chocolate chips
3 tablespoons milk
for the peanut butter dip:
1/2 cup peanut butter
2 oz. softened cream cheese
1 cup marshmallow fluff
any desired toppings such as:
crushed oreos
shredded coconut
graham cracker crumbs
mini chocolate chips
chopped nuts
mini marshmallows
4 apples, washed and sliced
For the caramel dip, microwave caramels with milk stirring every 30 seconds until completely melted and smooth. Set aside.

For the chocolate dip, microwave chocolate chips with milk stirring every 30 seconds until completely melted and smooth. Set aside.

For the peanut butter dip, whip peanut butter and cream cheese together until smooth. Stir in marshmallow fluff and set aside.

Place toppings into small serving dishes.

Place all dips into serving bowls and serve with apples and toppings.

*if chocolate or caramel dips start to thicken, simply microwave 15-20 seconds to thin out again.


The Best First Date

July 1st, 2014 | No Comments | Posted in Videos

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DIY Emergency Car Kit

July 1st, 2014 | No Comments | Posted in Advice and Tips
Heading out on a road trip this summer? Make sure you have
this emergency car kit with you.


“Emergency Car Kit” Label
Label paper
Vintage box (we found ours on Etsy)
Wool blanket (we found ours on Etsy)
Emergency equipment of your choice, we added:
Water bottles
Granola Bars
Hand sanitizer
Basic medicine for pain relief, motion sickness, & upset stomach
Bug spray
Baby wipes
Travel toilet paper
First Aid Kit
Safety Whistle
Emergency flare kit
Tire pressure gauge
Emergency radio
Jumper cables
Warning triangles
Tire plug kit
Paracord rope
Seatbelt cutter/Glass breaker
Step 1: Pack the box with all the necessary equipment.

Step 2: Download the “Emergency Car Kit” label and print out onto label paper. Cut out the label and attach to the box.


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